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2023.05.30 18:55 Dehnus Disability rooms Sequoia lodge, I heard they made changes in march?
Hi,
I have few questions regarding the special needs rooms for people with wheel chairs. They used to be 4 beds in 2 rooms, with the second room being a single bed and bunk beds. One shower for people with special needs and the other a normal one.
Now I hear they made changes, and removed beds, but some people say they also removed the doors and/or made the room smaller?
Since we cannot get much of a straight answer from the representative on the phone, we kind of would like to ask the people in this sub. What are the changes that they made? And how is the floor plan now?
I know this might be a strange question, but we are going with a person that can be easily agitated and is in a wheel chair, so we are worried a bit, as Disney doesn't put any floor plans of the rooms online, nor pictures of the new special needs arrangements.
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2023.05.30 18:54 el_be PANCE Study Guide
To all the future PA-Cs in this subreddit, I figured I would share this helpful study guide that my class put together. It is pretty well inclusive of nearly all topics from the PANCE blueprint, and it will definitely help you pass!
I was a Wednesday tester from this past week, and excitedly found out today that I passed!
My study tips during clinical year:
Primary resources included Rosh Review EOR exam pack + a study guide
The study guides that I used were Twist of Lemons EOR study guides (for most), followed by study guides that classmates made, which I found just over mid-way though the year, they were similar to ToL, but with more up to date info and a bit more in-depth. The ToL study guides would definitely be enough if combined with Rosh Review, just make some edits along the way. The AAPA Rotation Crash Course podcasts were also a bit helpful for some high yield stuff.
To prepare, I would first download a copy of the study guide to the Notability app on my iPad. This would allow me to highlight important things with my own color-key, and write down extra info I thought was important in the margins.
BEFORE reviewing the study guide information, I would pull up Rosh Review and go through the questions to see what I knew, prior to reviewing the study guide material.
IF POSSIBLE, I would create small Rosh exams based on subject matter. I.e. I would create a “cardiology” exam and select the cardiology questions. Then I would create a “pulmonology” exam with the pulm questions. etc. etc. etc.
While quizzing, ALWAYS use Tutor mode.
If I got a question right and I knew it, I would quickly skim through the explanation and see if there was any other important info.
If I got a question wrong, whether it was a small mistake or I truly didn’t know, I would review the information, and take notes along with the topic in my study guide. Again, highlighting key points and writing extra notes in the margins.
If I got a question right but it was with luck because I truly wasn’t sure, I would again review the information and take notes in my study guide while I followed along.
This helped me better understand things I wasn’t too certain of, because it would give me a patient/clinical vignette to be able to make sense of what was being asked. Instead of just reading bulleted notes, now I had something to associate the information with.
After completing the different sections and marking up my study guide, I would go back through the study guide to review the notes I just took, and review things that didn’t have notes associated with them.
After reviewing the material more in-depth, I would create randomized exams and go through them again to see what I knew. By now I’ve reviewed the material nearly twice, and have a good knowledge of topics. If there are still areas of weakness, review and review some more.
If I was a bit lazy during my rotation and was on a time crunch, I would use the above method with only the “major areas” on the exam. This is where looking up the EOR blueprints is helpful, because you know which categories will be of higher percentage on the exams, and you can tailor your studying that way.
My study tips for the PANCE:
I would recommend taking the PANCE as soon as possible after graduating. The information is still very fresh in your mind, and it’ll reduce the test anxiety associated with the exam.
For the PANCE, I took a somewhat similar approach to my EORs. I utilized the PANCE study guide my classmates had created, PANCE question bank on Rosh, and listened to Cram the PANCE podcasts.
This time, I was more-so focused on the study guide and the podcasts, and would use the ROSH questions sporadically. This was primarily due to the timing factor of it, since Rosh can be time-consuming. But again, I found it helpful to break things down by category to make sure it the questions would coincide with my study guide, when I would utilize Rosh.
I found the podcasts very helpful for high yield information, and some of his ways of remembering things were quite clever. I had several questions on my PANCE that they helped out on!
When test day comes, remember to get plenty of rest the night before, eat a good breakfast (I went with a hard boiled egg, walnuts, and a banana), and take the breaks they give you during the exam. Get up, use the bathroom, stretch, grab a light snack that you packed, drink some water, etc.
I have the study guide link associated with this post, it’s in Google doc so hopefully people can view it. Posting from mobile, so sorry if the formatting of my post is weird. Let me know if you run into any issues with the study guide, and I will try to fix it.
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2023.05.30 18:54 illz88 They read about it on Reddit.
2023.05.30 18:53 MichaelMaugerEsq How can I get my high-energy toddler to sit and read a book with me?
This is going to be kind of rambly and for that I apologize. Bottom line here is I feel like we don't read enough books with our 20 month old toddler.
I'll be the first to admit, this is 100% our fault. We did not do a lot of reading to our oldest when she was a baby and so we never formed a habit. She will, from time to time, bring a book over to us and sit in our lap and act like she wants us to read a book to/with her. But she loses interest extremely quickly and will fight and claw her way off my lap to get off and move on to her next thing.
We haven't wanted to "force" her to sit and read with us for two reasons. First, because we don't want her to have negative associations with reading and books. But second, she's doing extremely well so far with her language skills and other cognitive functions. She knows her alphabet, can count to ten, and knows tons of animals and such. So we haven't really pressed the issue.
But it's gotten to a point where we barely read books at all, and that just feels really wrong at this stage.
I'd ideally like for it to become part of our bedtime routine. Right now, our bedtime routine is a final cup of milk on the couch (lights very dimmed) and an episode or two of Bluey. Our bedtime routine works, though. She is calm when we take her to bed and typically goes down without any issue. I'd love for the routine to become a book (or two or three or however many we can get through for 10-15 minutes to calm down) in the chair in her room, and then down for bed.
So I guess I'm kind of looking for strategies/books that have worked for getting a young toddler who doesn't seem to have any interest in reading, much less the attention for it, to be more interested in books. Or am I overthinking this?
Thanks in advance!
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2023.05.30 18:53 LEV_95 Heartbroken and confused.
I (28F) had been with my now (now ex) boyfriend for 8 years. We met in college and went through everything together. We had such good times and hard ones. I thought he was the one for me.
We had to do two years of long distance due to him pursuing a masters program 6 hours away. We both agreed to stay in the relationship and be committed to one another. It was hard, but I knew I wanted to be with him and stuck through it. COVID and lock down definitely didnt help either.
Once his masters program ended, he accepted a job in a new city and I moved to be with him. That’s when I found out he had sex with 4 girls he met over tinder and had told everyone in his class he was single.
I broke up with him earlier this month. We said our tearful goodbyes. I feel so sad, and as pathetic as it is, I miss him. I feel so heartbroken and discarded. Why wasn’t I good enough to remain committed to? Why didn’t this relationship matter as much to him as it did to me, and why was he okay with lying to my face for so long while I uprooted my life to be with him?
I feel so sad and so lost. I just want to lay in bed for a month but I need to get up and work and pretend to be okay. I signed up for therapy and start next week.
I’m not sure what I’m looking for here. I just have no one to talk to without feeling embarrassed and stupid. I don’t understand how someone could do this to another person. My soul is absolutely crushed and my heart feels empty.
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2023.05.30 18:53 MizMarbs Suggestions for Two-Meals-A-Day Strategy
Hi Everyone -
I am an experienced Keto-er and I'm returning to the way of eating after several years away.
I am about to enter an extremely busy summer season at work, so I am wanting to do two meals a day and I want to eat the same thing every day (personal preference).
I am struggling to get my macros right in my meal planning for this go round and was wondering if anyone had some food / menu planning suggestions.
I'm doing a 40% deficit and here are my calculations:
Protein - 60g
Carbs - 34g
Fat - 142g
Kcal - 1651
Where I am getting hung up in my meal planning is reaching the 1651 kcals without totally going over the protein goal.
The foods I like most: chicken thighs & legs w/skin, ground beef, steak, antipasto-like salad, eggs, cheese, pepperoni, salami, ham, butter, broccoli, cauliflower, salad greens, tomatoes, nuts, olive oil, italian dressing, and stone berries like blueberries/strawberries when in season.
What I was thinking was an omelette for breakfast with ham/cheese/spinach cooked in butter and coffee w/heavy cream. Small stone fruit cup. Then salad, meat, veg for dinner. But I can't get the math to work across two meals. I'm always 200-300 calories short and then over on protein. I'm clear I can just add fats for calories, but I don't really want just empty fat cals to meet the kcal number. Are there any fatty snacks that won't overdo the protein?
Any suggestions for how to better portion/structure the two meals to meet the protein & kcal goal?
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2023.05.30 18:52 prettyinpinknwhite Physical effects but no mental effects?
I know it’s early days—just had my 2nd shot 2 days ago, so I’m still on 0.25–but was wondering if anyone else has had physical effects without the mental effects. Like, I’m definitely staying full longer (though I don’t seem to be getting full faster), and I’ve had a touch of nausea, heartburn, and headaches here and there. But mentally? The food noise is definitely still there and the cravings almost seem more pronounced. This morning I ate a fried egg for breakfast, thought “mmm, that was tasty,” and immediately started thinking about what to eat for lunch. I also struggle with impulsivity and had hoped to experience the effects others had noticed with that being reduced, but nothing so far.
At first I thought maybe I just didn’t get all of the first dose because I had a bit left on my skin when I pulled the needle out (despite waiting a few seconds), but the second time I know for sure it all went in.
I would love to know if others have had a similar experience or if y’all have any advice to share!
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2023.05.30 18:52 username_choose_you First smallie of the season (4-4)
2023.05.30 18:51 the_DukeLord It's been over a year and I still think about her
Not in the same light but I wish I did. I wish this lady didn't live rent free in my mind but she does. Or maybe I should just stfu already. Whether I get up or stay in bed she'll in my head. Not in a crazy way. It's like she's still telling me to do good things still. To always be the good man that I am. I know for a fact the feeling is not mutual between us. And let's face it even IFwe got back together right now. I still cannot stand her stupid retarded ass friends well the one's I know anyway. I completely trust none. And the underestimating me yea that feel good too. Especially when I'll throw that shit back at yal. But I digress, the point is this. I can go all around the world. Meet all different types of people. And no lie I would want to be alone. But if I had a choice of who I could bring with. It'll be you, it always going to be you. Until then or not at all I'll riding through by myself.
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2023.05.30 18:49 lovely_machine Goodbye Blue Mondays
| Thank you all for checking out the trailer over the past few weeks and for reaching out. Very pleased to announce that after 2 days of pandemic era recording, and nearly 3 years of navigating the transition from visual to audio storytelling - and thanking heavens that Davinci Resolve bolstered their audio tools over this time so I wasn’t at a complete loss as to where to begin - the first 3 episodes of our absurdist, satirical, near future podcast, Goodbye Blue Mondays, are now live. If things like Terry Gillian’s Brazil, or Dr. Strangelove, or perhaps Breakfast of Champions are your vibe this could be right up your alley. Please note it is definitely “adult,” and you probably don’t want to blast it in the middle of the office. That’s said, we hope you listen, and enjoy the ride. It’s a fun one. Many, many, thanks! Gregory Creator, Goodbye Blue Mondays Podcast feed: https://feeds.captivate.fm/goodbyebluemondays/ submitted by lovely_machine to audiodrama [link] [comments] |
2023.05.30 18:48 AlternativeYellow7 Birkenstocks/shoes
I've been trying to work in my new pair of super birkenstocks today. Wore them around the house over the weekend.
I know the comfort level and break in is a thing.
But it seems there's a lip at the front of the cork bed insert that I can't seem to get comfortable around. Anyone share this issue? Does it resolve itself?
Also, damn these things hurt. I'm used to breaking in shoes but oof.
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2023.05.30 18:48 retro-morte This condition has complicated a lot of things in my life
As the title says, my mental instability makes my life hard. I am a woman in my early twenties and I was only diagnosed this year after having noticed new declines in my mental health over the past couple years. I am on academic suspension at college due to poor attendance and effort, and my employer told me today that I will be suspended for my absences. Last year, I missed a lot of work during my low periods, but I began medication and I hadn't called out of work until this past weekend when I felt suicidal. I am going to try to appeal my suspension, but regardless, I am afraid I will get fired for future absences. How do I go to work when I can't get out of bed to shower or eat? Caring for my two dogs is the only thing in my life I don't neglect sometimes.
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2023.05.30 18:47 atlasrisee Advice for breakfast places near Arc De Triomphe?
We have tickets for Arc De Triomphe at 11:10AM.
We haven’t been able to buy tickets for Eiffel Tower yet, and we have dinner planned at Les Cocottes at 7PM and would like to make it to the Eiffel Tower afterwards.
We also plan on checking out Champ de Mars in between, so would it be better to grab a nice lunch somewhere instead of breakfast or if we chose to do a picnic are there places nearby we can get ready made food or groceries?
Also, since we plan to stick around the area instead of going back to our hotel, are there places/stores you recommend us to check out? With the day not being so busy, we also just wanted to sit and take in the sights. Thanks in advance! :)
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2023.05.30 18:46 Sleepydreamer14 I feel like I beat my anxiety just to slip into depression and I don’t know what to do
I used to struggle really badly with social and generalized anxiety which I am happy to say I have made incredible strides in overcoming. I am able to do things now socially and just in my day to day life that I previously wished I could. I am very proud of myself, I did this with the assistance of medication and I did take a lot of steps out of my comfort zone then that have helped. However, I am not doing very well right now, and my anxiety is not at fault for that.
I just genuinely feel sad and tired of everything. I know I have done everything I could think of but I’m just in a bad situation stuck in a place where I am surrounded with fake people who I cannot relate with, my friends make me feel worthless sometimes and I feel I have so much to prove to everyone but they just can’t see. I am batshit in love with someone I know, the only person I feel connect to, and I have spent the past two years letting myself be completely destroyed by them and all the mixed signals they send me. I’ve done everything I could for them, and they make me feel terrible sometimes, but they’re the only person I love and I can’t get over them because I would feel so void without feeling this connection to someone and I wouldn’t have anyone. I love all the hope it gives me, laying in bed and going through my day daydreaming about being close to them and how good things could be but as time goes on the more of a pipe dream that becomes and it destroys me. I have done everything I can to relate to people around me but for the life of me I can’t. I am watching the smartest, most supportive person in my life slowly losing a battle with a terrible incurable condition, I have to deal with knowing in the back of my mind that my generation is fucked so badly, I have to face the fear everyday that i might never meet my people,even if it’s not true, I have to put on a face for all my colleagues and be a goof so they never see how shitty I feel even though I know they won’t care.
I’m transferring schools next year (thank fuck) and I hope that makes things better, but in the meantime I need to make a change. I don’t want to be lonely and depressed this summer or anymore because I really can’t take it. Sometimesafter a hard day I’ll just sit in bed at night and cry so fucking hard about everything. I was so happy when I was living in hope all the times thinking that all of my small goals would be accomplished by now but I saw their candles be blown out. My big passions are music and working out and they help a lot in the moment, but I can’t be doing them 24/7 time yknow and it doesn’t change all the shit I’ve been through. I don’t have the motivation to do my work,I can’t go to therapy because I have tried before multiple times and I’ve never met the right therapist and it’s exhausting to keep going to people and dumping all of my problems out, and I live in the US so it’s expensive as fuck. please help me, I’ve fought the boss of anxiety but now I’m getting kicked in the balls all over again. I’m not going to end my life, I can’t and I promise my self I never will. But still I’m just living everyday with this waves of sadness crashing into me and I don’t know what to do. It hurts to look at everything I’ve done and think how it seems I’ve gotten nowhere
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2023.05.30 18:46 Ok_Presentation4297 Side effects on first SubQ shot?
I was recommended by doctor to go on TRT about a month ago. Dr feels I may be suffering from adrenal fatigue plus other factors. 6 ft male, 45, 195 lbs.
Prescribed 100 Mg or 0.5 ml per week and doctor asked for me to do it under the skin. So I normally pinch my belly a few inches away from belly button and inject there. I did first on a Sunday and by Tuesday I was feeling a bit out of breath after breakfast (normal size meal). I wasn't gasping for air but had to make a conscious effort to breath a bit deeper. Only lasted a couple of hours. That first week this happened about 3-4 times at different times during the week. I texted the dr office and they told me the symptoms could be related to adrenal fatigue. Despite not having much of an issue prior to injection.
Second dose on a Sunday again. This time I was good up until about Wednesday and it only happened twice in the week. Again only lasting a couple of hours each day at randon time of the day
Third dose, out of breath for one day and so the same for the fourth dose
Has anyone experience this? I understand that shortness of breath is one of the potential side effects but is it normal for the first dose or for being on TRT for what is perspectively a short time?
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2023.05.30 18:46 restlesslegsyndrm My 33F boyfriend 32M has been uninstalling and reinstalling Tinder.
My boyfriend has been hiding Tinder for months
We have been together for five years with 10 months of last year being a breakup for us. He ended things because he felt like he needed space and wanted to see what else was out there. Three months after the breakup, he asked for my permission to slowly start dating again (which I told him he didn't need but he said he did out of respect). We stayed friends during our breakup as we dated other people. After several months he said he can't feel a connection with anyone else because he keeps thinking of me and what we had. We got back together. About a month after getting back together, he opened his phone and tinder was his recently opened app. I was hurt he still had it and left politely without mentioning it. He figured it out as it was pretty obvious. He came over the next day to apologize and started he deleted his tinder.
Earlier this year he asked me to move in with him. I was so happy as he's generally scared of commitment. This was a big step for both of us since we've never lived with an SO before. He got hurt and had to have surgery the week before we moved in so he was in the hospital until 2 weeks after I moved in.
Things are going great. We communicate about issues that are bothering us(except this which I just discovered and haven't brought up yet), share responsibilities, take care of each other when we're sick, etc. But yesterday I had to work from home and his computer wasn't logged in. He custom built two gaming computers which I'm almost never on. I asked him on the phone to login so I could work and he said he's going to come home and make a guest account for me. I thought this was bizarre since he was far away. He said he just wanted some privacy, but it was so secretive and unlike him that it raised a concern in my head. Last night, I couldn't sleep so I did a quick search. Apparently he has been uninstalling and reinstalling Tinder until the day after he came home from the hospital (two weeks after I had already moved in). His subscription is cancelled. He also has a second Instagram and a second Snapchat (which I didn't see, just saw there was separate login info for it, so it could very well be old/not actively using it anymore). I lay in bed processing this for hours. After sleeping on it, I can understand a second IG and Snapchat perhaps.. if he was talking to girls when we weren't together, he might not want to have shared his personal social media that's linked to his grandparents, friends, etc. But the Tinder thing makes me sad. I don't know if I can trust him.. maybe he didn't think it was bad because we weren't ""officially"" living together until he came home from the hospital. Maybe he was curious to just see what pictures /profiles were on tinder.. idk, but he was receiving DMs and matching until the end of March. But I don't know if I should just let this go since he hasn't been on Tinder since April 1st and has cancelled his membership. I don't see my therapist until Friday which I'm okay with waiting, but it feels deceptive to hold onto this without discussing it as I feel that's how resentment builds. I'm so lost.
TL;DR my boyfriend was acting sketch then I found out he has two IGs and SCs. He also used tinder for months after he told me he deleted it, but hasn't touched it since April 1st.
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2023.05.30 18:46 Sleepydreamer14 I feel like I beat my anxiety just to slip into depression and I don’t know what to do
I used to struggle really badly with social and generalized anxiety which I am happy to say I have made incredible strides in overcoming. I am able to do things now socially and just in my day to day life that I previously wished I could. I am very proud of myself, I did this with the assistance of medication and I did take a lot of steps out of my comfort zone then that have helped. However, I am not doing very well right now, and my anxiety is not at fault for that.
I just genuinely feel sad and tired of everything. I know I have done everything I could think of but I’m just in a bad situation stuck in a place where I am surrounded with fake people who I cannot relate with, my friends make me feel worthless sometimes and I feel I have so much to prove to everyone but they just can’t see. I am batshit in love with someone I know, the only person I feel connect to, and I have spent the past two years letting myself be completely destroyed by them and all the mixed signals they send me. I’ve done everything I could for them, and they make me feel terrible sometimes, but they’re the only person I love and I can’t get over them because I would feel so void without feeling this connection to someone and I wouldn’t have anyone. I love all the hope it gives me, laying in bed and going through my day daydreaming about being close to them and how good things could be but as time goes on the more of a pipe dream that becomes and it destroys me. I have done everything I can to relate to people around me but for the life of me I can’t. I am watching the smartest, most supportive person in my life slowly losing a battle with a terrible incurable condition, I have to deal with knowing in the back of my mind that my generation is fucked so badly, I have to face the fear everyday that i might never meet my people,even if it’s not true, I have to put on a face for all my colleagues and be a goof so they never see how shitty I feel even though I know they won’t care.
I’m transferring schools next year (thank fuck) and I hope that makes things better, but in the meantime I need to make a change. I don’t want to be lonely and depressed this summer or anymore because I really can’t take it. Sometimesafter a hard day I’ll just sit in bed at night and cry so fucking hard about everything. I was so happy when I was living in hope all the times thinking that all of my small goals would be accomplished by now but I saw their candles be blown out. My big passions are music and working out and they help a lot in the moment, but I can’t be doing them 24/7 time yknow and it doesn’t change all the shit I’ve been through. I don’t have the motivation to do my work,I can’t go to therapy because I have tried before multiple times and I’ve never met the right therapist and it’s exhausting to keep going to people and dumping all of my problems out, and I live in the US so it’s expensive as fuck. please help me, I’ve fought the boss of anxiety but now I’m getting kicked in the balls all over again. I’m not going to end my life, I can’t and I promise my self I never will. But still I’m just living everyday with this waves of sadness crashing into me and I don’t know what to do. It hurts to look at everything I’ve done and think how it seems I’ve gotten nowhere
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2023.05.30 18:46 Horse-Sea i fumbled soo hard
so for some context i (17m) met this girl (steph 17f) back when i was in my first year of high school (2016-17) i don’t remember talking to her that much at first but overtime we became somewhat friends because we both played xbox, we had only had a handfull of convos over text and less in person, she ended up leaving that same year and came back for a little bit the next year then she left again and i hadn’t heard or seen from her since, i still followed her on instagram so i’d see the occasional post or story but that’s about it, over the time i saw that she had been in and out of hospital for mental health reasons and you could tell her in her photos that she had been self harming, her whole style changed aswell into more “gothic” i guess you could say, fast forward 2 years or so from then, i was around 15 and i was on my way to one of my friends (jarred 17m) little get togethers, usually i’m always late for these kinds of events but this time i had come pretty early and so as i was opening the back yard door expecting only jarred and one of my other friends to be there to my surprise i see steph sitting on the little porch bench by herself and my friends were inside the house, at this point i’m very confused because these groups of friends are from a whole different school and area so i didn’t think they knew steph or at least enough to invite her to something like this but of course i wasn’t going to start asking questions because either way it was nice seeing someone after so long but anyway about 30 minutes later jarred tells me him and my other friend are going to pick up something on his E-scooter and to chill with steph and i was fine with it so they left and steph and i talked for a while and it was probably one of the most down to earth and funny conversations i had but anyway shortly after that she left and that was the last time i saw her, i continued to follow her on instagram but i had gotten into a relationship so i forgot about her all together, fast forward 2 months ago i had already left that relationship i was in and felt like i had moved on enough to try find someone new so there i was laying in bed when i open stephs story and it’s the usual selfie with a lil peep type song in the background nothing special from her usual posts but for some reason when i saw it it made me feel almost like butterfly’s in my stomach and i knew it was something different because i had always thought she was decently attractive. so there i was, thinking about her allot and i’d get excited when she’d post but i still couldn’t understand why because i hadn’t spoken to her in nearly 2 years so within that week i was so invested in to this almost “celebrity crush “ that i had a dream that i had asked her out and she said yes, i remember being so happy that i did it and genuinely feeling loved and warm with her then i woke up and realised everything was a dream, i was actually heartbroken because it’s not even like we did date and broke up nope it was all a fictional tale in my brain so that morning i decided to at least try because i don’t wanna live my life wondering “what if” so i built up the courage to reply to one of her selfie stories and i did and although i felt abit intimidated by her because i had never been or tried to be with someone that is “alt” i felt that the conversation went good but this is where the real problem begins after at the end of our convo i suggested we should catch up sometime when i move back closer to her (probably should’ve mentioned i live out of the city at the moment but i’m moving back) and she said yes and i was so hyped up at myself i didn’t even think of asking for her snap or number and when i realised it was already too late to double message her so i kinda just accepted my defeat and through the month my friends and even sister have been saying i fumbled even harder by not asking at all, now it’s been almost 2 months since the dm should i try or has that ship long sailed help, any and all advice would be greatly appreciated thank you :)
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2023.05.30 18:45 Throwaway2232187 At a loss… please help. 30(F) do not remember what happened with ?(F).
Hello… I need help understanding what happened to me. I haven’t thought about this situation in 10 years, but I recently brought it up to my current boyfriend who said it sounded like a sexual assault. I was hesitant to call it that because I associate a lot of guilt in myself to this situation because of how much I used to drink at the time that this happened. I have not thought about it at all, and have allowed myself to move forward without having defined it as anything.
I had just gone through a really rough break up with my boyfriend. This day was particularly bad, and I decided to go to a local bar. There was a local at the bar (f) who I struck up a conversation with. She was telling me how pretty I was and making me feel wanted. I had no intention of hooking up with this person as I identify as straight, but the attention was helping me feel wanted again. I ended up taking too many shots, and at bar close, was offered a ride home by this person who I had been talking to. The last thing I remember was being in her car on the way to my house. From that point forward I completely blacked out and have no recollection of getting home or getting to bed. I woke up the next morning with no underwear on in my bed, assuming that I had possibly “hooked up” with this person, but I had no memory of even getting to my house. I have some recollection of her leaving in the morning but couldn’t fully recall. I have a feeling something may have happened but was so embarrassed that I never spoke to the person again or even really thought much about it and just tried to move forward. I felt a heavy shame for allowing myself to drink to this point and not being able to remember what happened, and have done a lot of personal work, and have struggled to call it a sexual assault because I felt as though I carry part of that blame if something happened. My question is if this would be considered a sexual assault? I’m starting therapy and being more informed in how to define this situation would be helpful in how I speak about the situation. Thank you all in advance, I appreciate the time to read about my situation
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2023.05.30 18:44 sarathecookie Union Blacksburg - sign now or later? And is it horrible or nice
Returning sophmore but dont have known roommates. Dont mind random, but def want to live in Union Blacksburg.
I kinda want to wait till VT sends out the bill for the year, to know how much I will get in financial aid to help pay for room and board, but Im worried if I wait too long I will loose a bed at Union Blacksburg - its the most convenient place for me to stay.
Is there anything cheaper I should look at before signing? and do you think its a bad idea to wait till....say, June 15th?
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2023.05.30 18:44 Fuzzy-Hat2732 What’s happening with my neck?
24F 5”2 136lbs
No health conditions besides anxiety. I take lexapro 15mg.
I’ve been seeing a cardiologist who has assured me “everything is fine” due to some tachycardia I’ve been seeing lately. EKG (2 day and 5 day) and echo were clear.
However I noticed last night this:
https://imgur.com/a/RpKsAHJ pulsing under my chin on my left side. I only saw this because I have been having a very painful pinching pain that only lasts a few seconds at a time in that
exact area for a few days now.
Should I be concerned? No other symptoms besides some mild chest pain but I do get that fairly often as it’s one of my anxiety symptoms.
Thanks!
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2023.05.30 18:43 ThrowawayPostNight My best friend lost my respect
My best friend moved across the country a couple of years ago. She got a dog both for company and to take on all of her adventures with her. She hikes, she camps, she goes on solo road trips every now and again.
Why is that an issue? Let me count the ways.
- Day to day, she would not walk the dog.
- She would cram this 80lb dog into a 500-600 square foot apartment.
- She would SCREAM at this dog, all the time. Like rage filled, I've lost control of myself screaming. For things like it pooping it's crate when she wouldn't get out of bed to take it out in the morning. It was actually scary, I had never seen her behave that way before.
- The crate she would keep it in 50% of the time was too small. The dog couldn't stand up and turn around easily. It also had to lay on the bars of the crate because it had chewed the bottom plastic layer and she couldn't/wouldn't figure out an alternative.
- This dog had issues and was aggressive (it ended up being inbreeding and neurological) and she had ZERO CLUE about dogs and constantly triggered its anxieties and then would scream at it when it snapped. I'm talking it would be cowering and growling at something she would be doing, and she'd just keep doing it until the dog freaked out.
- She'd not take the dog out in time, it would have an accident and she'd scream at it. Including in the apartment elevator, she didn't take the dog all the way down, just came back up to the apartment and left the pee.
- She would play fight really aggressively (shoving, loud voice, grabbing) with this REACTIVE dog and then scream at it and put it in its crate when it inevitably got too hyped up and became aggressive.
- When it became very clear she was not equipped to own or take care of this dog, she waited MONTHS to look into surrendering it because "she wasn't ready". By then, nobody would take him because he was almost a year old and had too many incidents.
- She posted all over social media about how he started having seizures and they had to put him down, and it honestly turned my stomach that this poor dog had been living in an abusive, shitty situation with her for almost all of its life and right up until the end.
Now, after all of that, after having conversations where she agreed with me that she had no fucking clue what she was doing with a dog, she wasn't financially equipped to be in a living situation appropriate for a large dog, and saying she wouldn't be getting one until she had a yard and also hopefully a partner to take on the task of pet care, she's posting all over social media about GETTING A NEW BERNESE MOUNTAIN DOG PUPPY.
Currently, she's moving out of her tiny apartment and DOESN'T EVEN HAVE ANOTHER PLACE LINED UP. And yet she's buying a bunch of puppy equipment and posting a photo of a puppy with the caption "Soon❤️".
Like I just can't stand it. She is BEYOND clueless about dog care and training, and she's abusive with the way she yells and screams and loses her shit all the time. I've lost all of my respect for this person and all I can feel is disgust.
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